Absence Quote by Li-Young Lee
“I've been thinking about something for a long time, and I keep noticing that most human speech-if not all human speech-is made with the outgoing breath. This is the strange thing about presence and absence. When we breath in, our bodies are filled with nutrients and nourishment. Our blood is filled with oxygen, our skin gets flush; our bones get harder-they get compacted. Our muscles get toned and we feel very present when we're breathing in. The problem is, that when we're breathing in, we can't speak. So presence and silence have something to do with each other.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Personal reflections on breath and speech, 2020
Breathing in fills the body with vitality and presence, while speaking requires exhaling, linking breath with silence and awareness.
In simple terms: Inhalation brings presence; exhalation enables speech.
Notice how breath shapes your focus and communication.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- meditation
- public speaking
- stress reduction
- creative writing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your breathing pattern affect your concentration?
- Can you use intentional pauses to enhance communication?
Breath alone cannot sustain prolonged speech without fatigue.