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All alone Quote by Lewis Carroll

“It'll be no use their putting their heads down and saying "Come up again, dear!" I shall only look up and say "Who am I then? Tell me that first, and then, if I like being that person, I'll come up: if not, I'll stay down here till I'm somebody else"--but, oh dear!' cried Alice, with a sudden…” quote by Lewis Carroll
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“It'll be no use their putting their heads down and saying "Come up again, dear!" I shall only look up and say "Who am I then? Tell me that first, and then, if I like being that person, I'll come up: if not, I'll stay down here till I'm somebody else"--but, oh dear!' cried Alice, with a sudden burst of tears, 'I do wish they WOULD put their heads down! I am so VERY tired of being all alone here!”

Lewis Carroll

About This Quote

Source Book: Through the Looking-Glass, 1871

Alice questions existential frustration about identity and the desire to change herself to fit expectations.

In simple terms: She feels trapped and wants to become someone else.

Key Takeaway

Question who you truly are before trying to change.

Themes

identity loneliness self‑discovery

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal growth
  • therapy
  • creative writing
  • role‑playing games

Key Concepts

existentialism self‑concept social pressure

Questions to Reflect On

  • What defines your sense of self?
  • Can you find fulfillment without altering who you are?
A Different Perspective

Changing identity may not solve underlying loneliness.

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