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Failure Quote by Lewis B. Smedes

“The rule is: we cannot really forgive ourselves unless we look at the failure in our past and call it by its right name.” quote by Lewis B. Smedes
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“The rule is: we cannot really forgive ourselves unless we look at the failure in our past and call it by its right name.”

Lewis B. Smedes

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Forgiveness, 1990

True forgiveness requires naming the specific failure, confronting it honestly.

In simple terms: Naming the failure is needed to forgive.

Key Takeaway

Identify and label past hurts to move forward.

Themes

forgiveness self‑reflection accountability

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal trauma
  • relationship conflict
  • career setbacks
  • addiction recovery

Key Concepts

psychology moral philosophy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What past mistake have you avoided naming?
  • How does naming change your emotional response?
A Different Perspective

Denial or shame may block honest naming of the failure.

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