Children Quote by Letty Cottin Pogrebin
“The risk for a woman who considers her helpless children her "job" is that the children's growth toward self-sufficiency may be experienced as a refutation of the mother's indispensability, and she may unconsciously sabotage their growth as a result.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Motherhood and Identity, 2018
Mothers who view children as their sole purpose may sabotage their independence, fearing loss of relevance.
In simple terms: Mothers may hinder kids to stay needed.
Key Takeaway
Support children's autonomy while maintaining self‑worth.
Themes
motherhood
independence
self‑worth
Mood
supportive
thoughtful
Type
educational
psychological
When to use this quote
- parenting workshops
- career counseling
- family therapy
Key Concepts
family dynamics
psychology of dependency
Questions to Reflect On
- How can mothers balance care with fostering independence?
- What strategies prevent self‑sabotage?
A Different Perspective
The view may not apply to all maternal experiences.
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