Fear Quote by Leslie Jamison
““That was a moment where something clarified about shame for me: it’s not just something negative but some kind of arrow, it’s pointing at something, some confusing blend of fear and desire. There was liberation in that, thinking of shame as something to follow, like a path—rather than simply something to be paralyzed by, or try to dissolve, or become second-level meta-shamed by (i.e. “I shouldn’t even be having this feeling of shame…”)””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Art of Memoir, 2018
She reframes shame as a directional signal, a blend of fear and desire that can guide growth rather than paralyze.
In simple terms: Shame can point the way forward.
Use shame as a guide.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- creative writing
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you turn shame into insight?
- What fears does your shame reveal?
Shame can also reinforce negative self‑image if misinterpreted.