Christian marriage Quote by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
““The individual who rebels against the arrangements of society is ostracized, branded, stoned. So be it. I am willing to take the risk; my principles are very pagan. I will live my own life as it pleases me. I am willing to do without your hypocritical respect; I prefer to be happy. The inventors of the Christian marriage have done well, simultaneously to invent immortality. I, however, have no wish to live eternally. When with my last breath everything as far as Wanda von Dunajew is concerned comes to an end here below, what does it profit me whether my pure spirit joins the choirs of angels, or whether my dust goes into the formation of new beings? Shall I belong to one man whom I don't love, merely because I have once loved him? No, I do not renounce; I love everyone who pleases me, and give happiness to everyone who loves me. Is that ugly? No, it is more beautiful by far.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Venus in Furs by Leopold von Sacher‑Masoch, 1870
The speaker rejects societal norms, embraces personal freedom, and questions conventional morality, valuing authentic happiness over imposed eternity.
In simple terms: Reject norms, seek personal joy, deny imposed eternity.
Key Takeaway
Live authentically, cherish happiness.
Themes
individualism
freedom
existentialism
Mood
defiant
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
reflective
When to use this quote
- personal philosophy
- ethical debates
- life planning
Key Concepts
paganism
mortality
love
authenticity
Questions to Reflect On
- What does authentic happiness mean to you?
- How do you balance personal freedom with societal expectations?
A Different Perspective
May dismiss communal responsibilities.
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