Advice Quote by Leo Tolstoy
“Here's my advice to you: don't marry until you can tell yourself that you've done all you could, and until you've stopped loving the women you've chosen, until you see her clearly, otherwise you'll be cruelly and irremediably mistaken. Marry when you're old and good for nothing...Otherwise all that's good and lofty in you will be lost.”
About This Quote
Advice to delay marriage until self‑fulfillment and clear perception of a partner are achieved, avoiding future regret.
In simple terms: Delay marriage for self‑knowledge
Key Takeaway
Marry only when truly ready
Themes
self‑awareness
relationships
maturity
regret
personal growth
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- seeking purpose before partnership
- post‑career phase
- after personal achievements
Key Concepts
self‑actualization
clarity of perception
emotional readiness
Practical Applications
- counseling for late‑life relationships
- personal development workshops
Questions to Reflect On
- What does it mean to truly know yourself before committing?
- How can one assess readiness for marriage?
