Best man Quote by Leo Tolstoy
““But one thing I beg of you, look on me as your friend; and if you want some help, advice, or simply want to open your heart to someone- not now, but when things are clearer in your heart- think of me.' He took her hand and kissed it. 'I shall be happy, if I am able...' Pierre was confused. 'Don't speak to me like that; I'm not worth it!' cried Natasha... 'Hush, hush your whole life lies before you,' he said to her. 'Before me! No! All is over for me,' she said, with shame and humiliation. 'All over?' he repeated. 'If I were not myself, but the handsomest, cleverest, best man in the world, and if I were free I would be on my knees this minute to beg for your hand and your love.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy, 1877
A lover offers unconditional support and vows devotion, yet the beloved feels unworthy and rejects the affection.
In simple terms: Love offered, love rejected.
Key Takeaway
Recognize self‑worth before seeking love.
Themes
love
self‑esteem
rejection
vulnerability
Mood
longing
conflict
hopeful
Type
romantic
emotional
dialogue
When to use this quote
- confession of love
- emotional crisis
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
romantic idealism
self‑worth
power dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you accept help when offered?
- What makes you feel unworthy?
A Different Perspective
The speaker’s grand gestures may feel overwhelming or insincere.
