Children Quote by Lauren Slater
““I believe my strength has something to do with memory, with that concept of fluid time. For while I recall with clarity the terror of abuse, I also recall the green and lovely dream of childhood, the moist membrane of a leaf against my nose, the toads that peeled a golden pool in the palm of my hand. Pleasures, pleasures, the recollections of which have injected me with a firm and unshakable faith. I believe Dostoevski when he wrote, “If one had only one good memory left in one’s heart, even that may be the means of saving us.” I have gone by memory.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture, 2015
Memory intertwines pain and joy, shaping identity and resilience; recalling both trauma and wonder fuels a steadfast belief in survival.
In simple terms: Memory mixes trauma and joy, giving strength.
Cherish all memories to build inner fortitude.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- healing from abuse
- creative writing
- mindfulness practice
- counseling sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance painful and pleasant recollections?
- What practices help transform trauma into strength?
Memories can also trap us in past pain if not processed health.