Adults Quote by Lauren Oliver
“it's weird how much people change. for example, when i was a kid i loved all of these things..and over time all of them just fell away, one after another, replaced by friends and IMing and cell phones and boys and clothes. it's kind of sad, if you think about it. like there's no continuity in people at all. like something ruptures when you hit twelve, or thirteen, or whatever the age is when you're no longer a kid but a "young adult," and after that you're a totally different person. maybe even a less happy person. maybe even a worse one.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Personal Reflection on Adolescence, 2020
People often lose childhood interests as they transition to teenage years, leading to a sense of loss and identity change.
In simple terms: Growing up can feel like losing parts of yourself.
Embrace change while honoring past passions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship circles
- digital communication
- personal hobbies
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What childhood interests still matter to you?
- How can you integrate past joys into adult life?
Not everyone experiences loss; some retain continuity.