Being nice Quote by Laurell K. Hamilton
“Be nice, be nice, until it's time to stop being nice, then destroy them.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Anita Blake: Vampire Hunter series, 1993‑present
A strategy of feigned kindness followed by ruthless retaliation when patience runs out.
In simple terms: Pretend to be kind, then strike when necessary.
Key Takeaway
Use kindness strategically, but be prepared to act decisively.
Themes
trust
power
strategy
Mood
cautious
strategic
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- business negotiations
- personal boundaries
- political campaigns
- law enforcement
- competitive sports
Key Concepts
psychology
manipulation
conflict resolution
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it ethical to abandon kindness?
- What are the long‑term costs of this approach?
A Different Perspective
Such tactics can erode genuine relationships and invite retaliation.
