Affair Quote by Laura Wasser
“My personal feelings on marriage? Samuel Johnson once said that second marriages - although I could probably say this about any marriage - are about the triumph of hope over experience. I think that's true. I don't know that human beings were meant to mate for life or be monogamous. But, for me, the aspect of marriage that is troubling is that it's a contract that is governed by the state, and I don't want the state to have control over my personal affairs.”
About This Quote
The quote reflects on marriage as a social contract, questioning its state control and the naturalness of monogamy, while noting hope’s role in second marriages.
In simple terms: Marriage is seen as a state‑controlled contract, possibly unnatural, but hopeful in later unions.
Key Takeaway
Consider personal autonomy versus societal expectations.
Themes
marriage
state
personal autonomy
hope
monogamy
Mood
reflective
critical
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
opinion
analytical
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- legal advice
- personal decision‑making
- policy debate
Key Concepts
social contract
hope vs experience
individual liberty
Questions to Reflect On
- How much should the state regulate personal relationships?
- Can hope truly overcome past experiences?
A Different Perspective
State involvement may limit personal freedom and cultural variations.
