Both sides Quote by Kofi Annan
“The number one goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain their self-esteem. You don't hit a man on the head when you've got your fingers between his teeth.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: UN Conflict Resolution Guidelines, 2005
Preserve dignity of all parties; avoid humiliating tactics.
In simple terms: Respect both sides’ self‑esteem.
Key Takeaway
Maintain mutual respect.
Themes
conflict resolution
dignity
communication
Mood
respectful
hopeful
Type
ethical
practical
When to use this quote
- peace talks
- mediation
- team management
- customer service
Key Concepts
psychological safety
negotiation tactics
Questions to Reflect On
- How to ensure equitable dialogue?
- What methods protect self‑esteem in disputes?
A Different Perspective
Power imbalances may persist.
