Attitude Quote by Kingsley Amis
“Your attitude measures up to the two requirements of love. You want to go to bed with her and can't, and you don't know her very well. Ignorance of the other person topped up with deprivation, Jim. You fit the formula all right, and what's more you want to go on fitting it.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Old Devils, 1971
Love requires deep knowledge of a person; superficial desire without understanding is insufficient.
In simple terms: Love needs true understanding.
Seek deeper connection.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage
- friendship
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does true knowledge of a partner look like?
- Can love exist without intimacy?
Desire alone may be mistaken for love.