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Attitude Quote by Kingsley Amis

“Your attitude measures up to the two requirements of love. You want to go to bed with her and can't, and you don't know her very well. Ignorance of the other person topped up with deprivation, Jim. You fit the formula all right, and what's more you want to go on fitting it.” quote by Kingsley Amis
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“Your attitude measures up to the two requirements of love. You want to go to bed with her and can't, and you don't know her very well. Ignorance of the other person topped up with deprivation, Jim. You fit the formula all right, and what's more you want to go on fitting it.”

Kingsley Amis

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Old Devils, 1971

Love requires deep knowledge of a person; superficial desire without understanding is insufficient.

In simple terms: Love needs true understanding.

Key Takeaway

Seek deeper connection.

Themes

love knowledge intimacy

Mood

contemplative analytical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage
  • friendship

Key Concepts

psychology relationships

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does true knowledge of a partner look like?
  • Can love exist without intimacy?
A Different Perspective

Desire alone may be mistaken for love.

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