Encouragement Quote by Kevin DeYoung
“Flattery is saying something nice in order to help yourself. Encouragement is saying something true in order help someone else.”
About This Quote
Source Sermon: Grace and Truth, 2018
Flattery seeks self‑benefit, while encouragement offers genuine, other‑focused support that builds confidence.
In simple terms: Flattery helps you; encouragement helps others.
Key Takeaway
Choose honesty that lifts others.
Themes
communication
integrity
motivation
relationships
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
Type
ethical
motivational
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- parenting
- coaching
- public speaking
- social media
Key Concepts
psychology of praise
ethical speech
self‑esteem
leadership
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you offered true encouragement?
- How does genuine praise affect trust?
A Different Perspective
Flattery can be manipulative if insincere.
