Adult life Quote by Kevin Canty
““Also: people pretended not to want what they wanted. Pretending tried to hide the will. That was the secret of adult life, the undisclosed motor of the whole thing. People wanted what they wanted. They did what they could to get it. It wasn't complicated. Kenny knew that was the last step he needed to take before he could be an adult: he had to learn what he wanted, then had to learn to want what he wanted.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Last Step, Kevin Canty, 2015
Adults often hide their true desires, pretending not to want them, which drives much of their behavior. Recognizing and accepting one's real wants is essential for maturity.
In simple terms: Adults hide true wants; accepting them is key to adulthood.
Key Takeaway
Identify and own your true desires.
Themes
self-awareness
authenticity
growth
Mood
reflective
introspective
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- relationships
- personal goals
- creative projects
Key Concepts
psychology
identity
motivation
Questions to Reflect On
- What hidden desire are you avoiding?
- How does acknowledging it change your actions?
A Different Perspective
People may resist confronting desires due to fear of vulnerability.
