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“Getting over it doesn't mean forgetting it, it just means reducing the pain to a tolerable level, a level that doesn't destroy you. I know that right now the idea of getting over it is unimaginable. It's impossible, inconceivable, unthinkable. You don't want to get over it. Why should you? It's…” quote by Kevin Brooks
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““Getting over it doesn't mean forgetting it, it just means reducing the pain to a tolerable level, a level that doesn't destroy you. I know that right now the idea of getting over it is unimaginable. It's impossible, inconceivable, unthinkable. You don't want to get over it. Why should you? It's all you've got. You don't want kind words, you don't care what other people think or say, you don't want to know how they felt when they lost someone, They're no you, are there! They can't feel what you feel. The only thing you want is the things you can't have. It's gone. Never coming back. No one know how that feels. No one know what it's like to reach out and touch someone who isn't there and will never be there again. No one knows the unifiable emptiness. No one but you. You and me, love. We don't want anything. We want to die, but life won't let us. We're all it's got.””

Kevin Brooks

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Unseen,” 2018

Healing involves tolerating pain rather than erasing it; acceptance is the path forward.

In simple terms: Accept pain, don’t erase it.

Key Takeaway

Allow pain to become manageable.

Themes

grief acceptance healing

Mood

somber introspective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • bereavement
  • mental health counseling
  • personal loss

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance acceptance with progress?
  • What small steps make pain tolerable?
A Different Perspective

Acceptance may lead to stagnation if not paired with growth.

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