Anxiety Quote by Kerry Cohen
““I begin to learn there are certain things I shouldn't tell her. Like when we meet boys at Dorrian's and I give mine a blow job, or the time I messed around with a boy in the back near the bathrooms. Amy wants to be intimate with boys too, but to her this kind of conduct is slutty. I suppose it is. She, like most girls, including the Jennifers, has a different relationship to boys than I do. She engages in sexual acts with them if she wants, but from my vantage point it looks like she can take them or leave them if they are not just right. She considers whether she actually likes someone before she jumps into bed with him. She isn't wracked with anxiety when there aren't any boys around. And she doesn't need them to live, which is what it feels like for me.””
About This Quote
Source Memoir: Personal reflections on parenting and sexuality, 2021
She struggles with how to discuss sexual topics with her child, balancing honesty and protecting innocence.
In simple terms: Parenting sexual topics is delicate.
Find age‑appropriate ways to talk about sexuality.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family dinner
- school talks
- parent‑child counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you frame sexual education without shame?
- What values do you want to convey?
Children may feel confused without guidance.