Able Quote by Kent Nerburn
“We are born male. We must learn to be men. Remember, strength is a force. It is an attribute of the heart. Its opposite is not weakness and fear, but confusion, lack of clarity, and lack of sound intention. If you are able to discern the path with heart and follow it even when at the moment it seems wrong, then and only then are you strong. Remember the words of Tao te ching. "The only true strength is a strength that people do not fear." Strength based in force is a strength people fear. Strength based in love is a strength people crave.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Way of the Warrior, Kent Nerburn, 2000
True strength comes from heart and clarity, not force; love‑based strength is sought, fear‑based strength is avoided.
In simple terms: Strength is heart‑driven, not forceful.
Cultivate inner clarity and compassionate power.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- leadership
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
- parenting
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice heart‑centered strength?
- What does love‑based strength look like daily?
Forceful power can still dominate societies.