Breaking point Quote by Kenneth Boa
““Much of the stress in our lives comes as a result of our insistence on maintaining the illusion of control. We so desperately want to be strong enough to handle the trials and tribulations of life that we literally drive ourselves into the ground rather than admit our desperate need. Often God allows us to reach the breaking point for our own good. Only in those moments of rare clarity that come from bottoming out will we allow ourselves to admit how little control we actually have. In those moments, the only thing we can do is throw ourselves headlong into the grace of God. In these moments, the pain and suffering actually drive us to him.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Power of Surrender, Kenneth Boa, 2015
We stress because we cling to false control; true peace comes when we admit our limits and trust a higher power.
In simple terms: Stress stems from false control; peace follows surrender.
Accept limits, trust grace.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal crisis
- health challenges
- career setbacks
- relationship problems
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What areas of your life are you trying to control?
- How could trusting a higher power change your response to stress?
Surrender may feel risky and can be misinterpreted as passivity.