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Confidence Quote by Kenji Yoshino

“Perhaps none of us assumes romantic love to be a birthright. Yet the confidence it will come surely admits of degrees. Growing up, I assumed I was the word that rhymed with none other-- like "silver" or "orange," glistering bright, but sonnet foiling, and always solitary traveling. Somewhere love…” quote by Kenji Yoshino
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““Perhaps none of us assumes romantic love to be a birthright. Yet the confidence it will come surely admits of degrees. Growing up, I assumed I was the word that rhymed with none other-- like "silver" or "orange," glistering bright, but sonnet foiling, and always solitary traveling. Somewhere love happened, plausible as a catch of distant conversation. But not in the self's way.””

Kenji Yoshino

About This Quote

Source Article: “The Uncertain Right of Love” by Kenji Yoshino, The New Yorker, 2022

Love is not a guaranteed right; it arrives in varying degrees and often unexpectedly, challenging personal expectations and solitude.

In simple terms: Love isn’t guaranteed; it comes in different ways.

Key Takeaway

Embrace openness to love’s unpredictable forms.

Themes

love expectation solitude growth

Mood

reflective hopeful melancholic

Type

literary personal philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • self‑reflection
  • friendship
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

romantic idealism personal narrative social expectation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you reconcile personal expectations with love’s unpredictability?
  • What can you learn from periods of solitude?
A Different Perspective

Love may remain elusive despite effort, leading to disappointment.

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