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Foolish Quote by Rita Mae Brown

“I used to think romantic love was a neurosis shared by two, a supreme foolishness. I no longer think that. There's nothing foolish in loving anyone. Thinking you'll be loved in return is what's foolish.” quote by Rita Mae Brown
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“I used to think romantic love was a neurosis shared by two, a supreme foolishness. I no longer think that. There's nothing foolish in loving anyone. Thinking you'll be loved in return is what's foolish.”

Rita Mae Brown

About This Quote

The speaker shifts from viewing romantic love as a shared neurosis to recognizing that loving without expectation is rational, while expecting love in return is the true folly.

In simple terms: Loving without expecting love is sensible; expecting love is foolish.

Key Takeaway

Love freely, let go of expectations.

Themes

love expectations relationships self‑growth

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendships
  • family relationships
  • personal healing

Key Concepts

psychology emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you practice unconditional love?
  • What fears underlie your expectations of love?
A Different Perspective

Expecting reciprocity can cause disappointment.

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