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Confrontation Quote by Ken Sande

“Ron Kraybill, a respected Christian mediator, has noted that "effective confrontation is like a graceful dance from supportiveness to assertiveness and back again." This dance may feel awkward at first for those who are just learning it, but perseverance pays off. With God's help you can learn to…” quote by Ken Sande
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““Ron Kraybill, a respected Christian mediator, has noted that "effective confrontation is like a graceful dance from supportiveness to assertiveness and back again." This dance may feel awkward at first for those who are just learning it, but perseverance pays off. With God's help you can learn to speak the truth in love by saying only what will build others up, by listening responsibly to what others say, and by using principles of wisdom.””

Ken Sande

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Christian Mediation by Ken Sande, 1995

Effective confrontation should balance supportiveness and assertiveness, like a dance, requiring practice and divine help to speak truth in love.

In simple terms: Balance support and assertiveness in conflict.

Key Takeaway

Practice gentle, honest communication.

Themes

conflict resolution communication faith assertiveness supportiveness

Mood

hopeful reflective

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • team leadership
  • parenting
  • peer mediation

Key Concepts

Christian mediation emotional intelligence assertive listening

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you shift from support to assertiveness gracefully?
  • What role does faith play in your conflict style?
A Different Perspective

May feel awkward initially and requires humility.

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