Confrontation Quote by Ken Sande
““Ron Kraybill, a respected Christian mediator, has noted that "effective confrontation is like a graceful dance from supportiveness to assertiveness and back again." This dance may feel awkward at first for those who are just learning it, but perseverance pays off. With God's help you can learn to speak the truth in love by saying only what will build others up, by listening responsibly to what others say, and by using principles of wisdom.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Christian Mediation by Ken Sande, 1995
Effective confrontation should balance supportiveness and assertiveness, like a dance, requiring practice and divine help to speak truth in love.
In simple terms: Balance support and assertiveness in conflict.
Practice gentle, honest communication.
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When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- team leadership
- parenting
- peer mediation
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you shift from support to assertiveness gracefully?
- What role does faith play in your conflict style?
May feel awkward initially and requires humility.