Accepting Quote by Kano Jigoro
“In an argument, you may silence your opponent by pressing an advantage of strength or of wealth, or of education. But you do not really convince him. Though he is no longer saying anything, in his heart he still keeps to his opinion, the only way to make him change that opinion is to speak quietly and reasonably. When he understands that you are not trying to defeat him, but only to find the truth, he will listen to you and perhaps accept what you tell him.”
About This Quote
Forceful tactics may silence opposition but do not change beliefs; respectful dialogue can open minds to truth.
In simple terms: Dominance silences, reason convinces.
Speak calmly and seek shared understanding.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- debates
- negotiations
- teaching
- leadership
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you create a safe space for honest exchange?
- What language fosters mutual respect?
Power alone rarely changes hearts.