Aggressive Quote by Judith Orloff
“People who feel the need to push and control tend to keep their feelings bottled up. As a result, they get shut down or remote, and their feelings come out in twisted, unhealthy ways. They become irritable, passive-aggressive, or volatile, for example.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Emotional Intelligence 2.0, 2015
Suppressing emotions to maintain control leads to unhealthy expression and relational distance.
In simple terms: Control blocks healthy emotional release.
Allow emotions to be expressed safely.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace dynamics
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you safely share feelings?
- What boundaries protect healthy expression?
People may fear vulnerability and resist openness.