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Bad man Quote by Judith Martin

“The challenge of manners is not so much to be nice to someone whose favor and/or person you covet (although more people need to be reminded of that necessity than one would suppose) as to be exposed to the bad manners of others without imitating them.” quote by Judith Martin
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“The challenge of manners is not so much to be nice to someone whose favor and/or person you covet (although more people need to be reminded of that necessity than one would suppose) as to be exposed to the bad manners of others without imitating them.”

Judith Martin

About This Quote

Source Book: The Book of manners, by Judith Martin, 1990

Being polite means resisting the urge to mimic others' bad manners, even when you admire them.

In simple terms: Politeness resists bad examples.

Key Takeaway

Stay courteous despite others' rudeness.

Themes

etiquette selfcontrol influence respect

Mood

reflective calm

Type

ethical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • dinner parties
  • workplace interactions
  • public transport

Key Concepts

social behavior personal integrity

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can you stay polite when provoked?
  • How do you model good manners?
A Different Perspective

Maintaining politeness can be socially draining.

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