Carrie Quote by Judith Martin
“Like language, a code of manners can be used with more or less skill, for laudable or for evil purposes, to express a great variety of ideas and emotions. In itself, it carries no moral value, but ignorance in use of this tool is not a sign of virtue.”
About This Quote
Source Book: "The Devil's Dictionary", 1961
Manners are neutral tools; their moral value depends on the user’s intent and knowledge.
In simple terms: Manners are neutral; intent matters.
Use etiquette responsibly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- business negotiations
- diplomacy
- everyday interactions
- education
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you ensure ethical use?
- What education improves etiquette?
Misuse can cause harm.