Books Quote by Judith Martin
““DEAR MISS MANNERS: I a tired of being treated like a child. My father says it's because I am a child--I am twelve-and-a-half years old--but it still isn't fair. If I go into a store to buy something, nobody pays any attention to me, or if they do, it's to say, "Leave that alone," "Don't touch that," although I haven't done anything. My money is as good as anybody's, but because I am younger, they feel they can be mean to me. It happens to me at home, too. My mother's friend who comes over after dinner sometimes, who doesn't have any children of her own and doesn't know what's what, likes to say to me, "Shouldn't you be in bed by now,dear?" when she doesn't even know what my bedtime is supposed to be. Is there any way I can make these people stop? GENTLE READER: Growing up is the best revenge.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Little Book of Etiquette, Judith Martin, 1995
A child feels unfairly treated as immature despite having the same rights and money as adults, seeking ways to stop condescension.
In simple terms: Kids want respect and to be taken seriously.
Key Takeaway
Assert your rights calmly and seek adult allies.
Themes
respect
fairness
empowerment
Mood
frustrated
determined
Type
social
advice
When to use this quote
- school
- shopping
- home interactions
Key Concepts
social dynamics
authority
age bias
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you communicate maturity without conflict?
- Who can support you in asserting your rights?
A Different Perspective
Adults may not recognize the child's maturity, limiting effectiveness.
