Apologizing Quote by Judith Martin
“A general rule of etiquette is that one apologizes for the unfortunate occurrence, but the unthinkable is unmentionable.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Book of Etiquette, 1993
Etiquette suggests apologizing for mishaps, yet some topics are too taboo to mention.
In simple terms: Apologize for accidents, but some things stay unspoken.
Key Takeaway
Know when silence is appropriate.
Themes
etiquette
communication
social norms
Mood
formal
practical
Type
prescriptive
social
When to use this quote
- business meetings
- family gatherings
- diplomatic negotiations
- crisis management
Key Concepts
social psychology
taboo
Questions to Reflect On
- When is silence more respectful than apology?
- What topics are unmentionable in your culture?
A Different Perspective
Avoiding discussion can hinder resolution.
