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“And so you must grant to God what is God and not try to think of what you have lost, for that way is madness.” quote by Joyce Carol Oates
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“And so you must grant to God what is God and not try to think of what you have lost, for that way is madness.”

Joyce Carol Oates

About This Quote

Source Book: The Gravedigger's Daughter by Joyce Carol Oates, 2007

Accept reality as it is rather than obsess over loss, because dwelling on what is gone leads to irrationality.

In simple terms: Accept what is, not what is missing.

Key Takeaway

Focus on present reality.

Themes

acceptance reality mental health

Mood

reflective serene

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • grief counseling
  • decision making
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

existentialism cognitive bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does clinging to loss affect your choices?
  • What can you gain by embracing the present?
A Different Perspective

Neglecting past lessons can hinder growth.

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