Parenting Quote by Josip Novakovich
““MY FATHER TRIED IT. In Daruvar, Croatia, he bought a piano, sat my oldest brother at it, and hired a teacher. Whenever Vlado made a mistake, the teacher caned his fingers. After a few such lessons, Vlado skipped one; the teacher complained and wanted his money. Vlado said he was beaten; the teacher denied it. Father believed the teacher, and beat Vlado for maligning such a gentleman. After that, Vlado made sure not to play the piano again. Father attempted to persuade him a few times with the belt and a stick, which only confirmed Vlado’s impression of the piano as the black instrument of torture.””
About This Quote
A harrowing account of a father's misguided discipline that turns a cultural pursuit into a source of trauma and fear.
In simple terms: Abuse corrupts artistic expression
Key Takeaway
Violence can scar cultural heritage
Themes
family
abuse
cultural loss
trauma
power dynamics
Mood
sad
angry
reflective
Type
narrative
testimonial
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conflict
- musical education
- intergenerational trauma
Key Concepts
discipline
inheritance
Practical Applications
- advocacy for safe teaching
- psychological counseling
Questions to Reflect On
- How does violence reshape perception of art?
- What safeguards protect children in cultural learning?
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