Connections Quote by Joshua Ferris
““I was already at one remove before the Internet came along. I need another remove? Now I have to spend the time that I'm not doing the thing they're doing reading about them doing it? Streaming the clips of them doing it, commenting on how lucky they are to be doing all those things, liking and digging and bookmarking and posting and tweeting all those things, and feeling more disconnected than ever? Where does this idea of greater connection come from? I've never in my life felt more disconnected. It's like how the rich get richer. The connected get more connected while the disconnected get more disconnected. No thanks man, I can't do it. The world was a sufficient trial, Betsy, before Facebook.””
About This Quote
The speaker laments digital overload, feeling increasingly isolated despite constant online activity, and critiques the widening gap between connected and disconnected.
In simple terms: Digital life deepens isolation.
Key Takeaway
Constant connectivity can erode genuine connection.
Themes
digital fatigue
social media
alienation
Mood
frustrated
reflective
Type
personal lament
cultural critique
When to use this quote
- taking a social‑media detox
- designing mindful tech experiences
Key Concepts
attention economy
psychological impact
Practical Applications
- Set intentional offline periods
- Curate content to prioritize meaningful interaction
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries can you set to protect real‑world relationships?
- How might technology be redesigned to enhance, connection?
A Different Perspective
Some digital platforms can foster supportive communities when used mindfully.
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