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“When we found each other, I was very flabbergasted by his appearance. This is an American? I thought. And also, This is a Jew? He was severely short. He wore spectacles and had diminutive hairs which were not split anywhere, but rested on his head like a Shapka. (If i were like Father, I might…” quote by Jonathan Safran Foer
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““When we found each other, I was very flabbergasted by his appearance. This is an American? I thought. And also, This is a Jew? He was severely short. He wore spectacles and had diminutive hairs which were not split anywhere, but rested on his head like a Shapka. (If i were like Father, I might even have dubbed him Shapka.) He did not appear like either the Americans I had witnessed in magazines, with yellow hairs and muscles, or the Jews from history books, with no hair and prominent bones. He was wearing nor blue jeans nor the uniform. In truth, he did not look like anything special at all. I was underwhelmed to the maximum.””

Jonathan Safran Foer

About This Quote

Source Novel: Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, 2005

The narrator is shocked by how the person defies stereotypical expectations of nationality and religion, feeling underwhelmed by the lack of distinct traits.

In simple terms: He expected obvious cultural signs but found none.

Key Takeaway

Avoid judging people by stereotypes.

Themes

identity expectation stereotypes culture surprise

Mood

confused reflective neutral

Type

observational literary

When to use this quote

  • meeting strangers
  • travel
  • reading literature
  • cross‑cultural interactions

Key Concepts

cultural perception identity formation bias

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do stereotypes shape our first impressions?
  • What does “underwhelmed” reveal about his expectations?
A Different Perspective

Stereotypes can oversimplify complex identities.

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