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Break Quote by Jonathan Safran Foer

“My impression is that staying together as a couple does not correspond to the challenges themselves, but whether the very idea of breaking up is an option on the table. If it is, then some people take it. If it's not, then they will keep working at it. You must know people who were terribly suited…” quote by Jonathan Safran Foer
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“My impression is that staying together as a couple does not correspond to the challenges themselves, but whether the very idea of breaking up is an option on the table. If it is, then some people take it. If it's not, then they will keep working at it. You must know people who were terribly suited who make it work. And there are couples who seem perfectly suited that break up. It's a mystery to everyone.”

Jonathan Safran Foer

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New Yorker, 2015

Couple stability depends on whether breakup is seen as an option; uncertainty fuels effort.

In simple terms: Seeing breakup as possible can motivate work.

Key Takeaway

Recognize options and choose commitment.

Themes

relationships commitment uncertainty

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • team projects
  • friendships

Key Concepts

psychology of choice relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you view breakup as a possibility?
  • How does that view affect your effort?
A Different Perspective

Constant fear of breakup may cause anxiety.

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