Boys Quote by Jonathan Safran Foer
“I think it's very pretty. Can it be pretty if no one thinks it's pretty? I think it's pretty. If you're the only one? That's pretty pretty. And what about the boys? Don't you want them to think you're pretty? I wouldn't want a boy to think I was pretty unless he was the kind of boy who thought I was pretty.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer, 2005
The speaker questions whether beauty is inherent or dependent on others' perception, especially male approval, highlighting insecurity and social validation.
In simple terms: Beauty may rely on others' opinions, especially men's.
Key Takeaway
Seek self‑approval over external validation.
Themes
self‑esteem
beauty standards
gender expectations
Mood
reflective
uncertain
thoughtful
Type
personal
philosophical
social.
When to use this quote
- adolescent self‑image
- dating
- media influence
- peer pressure
Key Concepts
social validation
self‑perception
insecurity
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you define beauty for yourself?
- How does seeking male approval affect your self‑image?
A Different Perspective
External opinions can shift self‑view, but true confidence comes from within.
