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“Fo Black lives on Canal Street, which used to be a real canal. He didn't speak very good English, because he hadn't left Chinatown since he came from Taiwan, because there was no reason for him to. The whole time I talked to him I imagined water on the other side of the window, like we were in an…” quote by Jonathan Safran Foer
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““Fo Black lives on Canal Street, which used to be a real canal. He didn't speak very good English, because he hadn't left Chinatown since he came from Taiwan, because there was no reason for him to. The whole time I talked to him I imagined water on the other side of the window, like we were in an aquarium. He offered me a cup of tea, but I didn't feel like it, but I drank it anyway, to be polite. I asked him did he really love New York or was he just wearing the shirt. He smiles, like he was nervous. I could tell he didn't understand, which made me feel guilty for speaking English, for some reason. I pointed at his shirt. "Do? You? Really? Love? New? York?" He said, "New York?" I said, "Your. Shirt." He looked at his shirt. I pointed at the N and said "New," and the Y and said "York." He looked confused, or embarrassed, or surprised, or maybe even made. I couldn't tell what he was feeling, because I couldn't speak the language of his feelings. "I not know was New York. In Chinese, ny mean 'you.' Thought was 'I love you.'" It was then that I noticed the "I♥NY" poster on the wall, and the "I♥NY" flag over the door, and the "I♥NY" dishtowels, and the "I♥NY" lunchbox on the kitchen table. I asked him, "Well, then why do you love everybody so much?””

Jonathan Safran Foer

About This Quote

Source Essay: “The New York Times Magazine” interview, 2015

A misunderstanding about language and cultural symbols reveals how communication gaps can cause discomfort and empathy.

In simple terms: Miscommunication about symbols can cause awkwardness and empathy.

Key Takeaway

Seek understanding beyond words.

Themes

communication culture empathy identity misunderstanding

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

narrative observational

When to use this quote

  • travel
  • hospitality
  • daily interactions
  • teaching language
  • cultural exchange

Key Concepts

symbolic meaning cross‑cultural interaction language barriers

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you bridge language gaps?
  • What symbols do you assume others understand?
A Different Perspective

Assuming shared symbols can overlook personal meaning.

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