Cried Quote by John Selden
“To preach long, loud, and Damnation, is the way to be cried up. We love a man that damns us, and we run after him again to save us.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Unknown, 17th century, possibly written work
The quote suggests that people are drawn to those who condemn them, seeking redemption through repeated conflict.
In simple terms: People love those who punish them and chase them for salvation.
Key Takeaway
Recognize unhealthy attraction to self‑destructive relationships.
Themes
psychology
redemption
self‑sabotage
Mood
conflicted
reflective
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- counseling
- spiritual seeking
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
attachment theory
masochism
repetition compulsion
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we seek validation from those who hurt us?
- How can we break the pattern of chasing harmful figures?
A Different Perspective
May ignore personal boundaries and repeat harmful cycles.
