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Divorcing Quote by John M. Gottman

“Some people leave a marriage literally, by divorcing. Others do so by leading parallel lives together.” quote by John M. Gottman
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““Some people leave a marriage literally, by divorcing. Others do so by leading parallel lives together.””

John M. Gottman

About This Quote

Source Book: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, 1999

People may physically end a marriage or emotionally live separate lives while staying together.

In simple terms: Divorce ends marriage; parallel lives keep it emotionally split.

Key Takeaway

Address underlying emotional disconnection.

Themes

marriage divorce emotional distance relationships

Mood

reflective serious

Type

advice psychological

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • relationship workshops
  • personal reflection
  • therapy

Key Concepts

attachment theory communication relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Are you truly present in your partnership?
  • How can you foster genuine connection?
A Different Perspective

Parallel lives can cause resentment and lack of intimacy.

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