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Augustus waters Quote by John Green

“You don't get to chose if you get hurt in this world, old man, but you do have some say in who hurts you. I like my choices. I hope she likes hers. - Augustus Waters” quote by John Green
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““You don't get to chose if you get hurt in this world, old man, but you do have some say in who hurts you. I like my choices. I hope she likes hers. - Augustus Waters””

John Green

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Fault in Our Stars, John Green, 2012

Choices shape who harms us, but we can influence those choices; personal agency matters despite inevitable pain.

In simple terms: We can decide who hurts us, even if pain is unavoidable.

Key Takeaway

Take responsibility for the people you let into your life.

Themes

choice pain agency relationships

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

personal responsibility emotional health

Questions to Reflect On

  • What choices do you make about who you trust?
  • Can you control the impact of others?
A Different Perspective

Not all harm can be avoided; some pain is random.

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