Augustus waters Quote by John Green
““You don't get to chose if you get hurt in this world, old man, but you do have some say in who hurts you. I like my choices. I hope she likes hers. - Augustus Waters””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Fault in Our Stars, John Green, 2012
Choices shape who harms us, but we can influence those choices; personal agency matters despite inevitable pain.
In simple terms: We can decide who hurts us, even if pain is unavoidable.
Take responsibility for the people you let into your life.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendships
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What choices do you make about who you trust?
- Can you control the impact of others?
Not all harm can be avoided; some pain is random.