Crying Quote by John Green
““I tried to go to sleep with my headphones still on, but then after a while my mom and dad came in, and my mom grabbed Bluie from the shelf and hugged him to her stomach, and my dad sat down in my desk chair, and without crying he said, 'You are not a grenade, not to us. Thinking about you dying makes us sad, Hazel, but you are not a grenade. You are amazing. You can't know, sweetie, because you've never had a baby become a brilliant young reader with a side interest in horrible television shows, but the joy you bring us is so much greater than the sadness we feel about your illness.' 'Okay,' I said. 'Really,' my dad said. 'I wouldn't bullshit you about this. If you were more trouble than you're worth, we'd just toss you out on the streets.' 'We're not sentimental people,' Mom added, deadpan. 'We'd leave you at an orphanage with a note pinned to your pajamas.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Fault in Our Stars by John Green, 2012
A parent comforts a child with a serious illness, affirming their value and love despite the pain it causes both parties.
In simple terms: Parents reassure a sick child they are loved and not a burden.
Recognize and express love even in hard times.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- hospital visits
- family gatherings
- support groups
- therapy sessions
- daily caregiving
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can families balance honesty with hope?
- What ways can we show love without minimizing pain?
The dialogue may oversimplify complex emotional dynamics and can feel forced.