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Crying Quote by Nicola Yoon

“I’m desperate to prevent her tears, but not because I’m noble or anything. I’m kind of a contagion cryer. You know how when one person starts yawning, everyone else starts yawning too? Or when someone vomits, the smell makes you want to hurl? I’m like that, except with crying, and I have no…” quote by Nicola Yoon
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““I’m desperate to prevent her tears, but not because I’m noble or anything. I’m kind of a contagion cryer. You know how when one person starts yawning, everyone else starts yawning too? Or when someone vomits, the smell makes you want to hurl? I’m like that, except with crying, and I have no intention of crying in front of the cute girl whose headphones I just broke.””

Nicola Yoon

About This Quote

The speaker feels compelled to shield someone from their own emotional outburst, not out of altruism but because they are emotionally contagious, fearing their tears will spread and affect a person they care about.

In simple terms: Emotional contagion and protective self‑control.

Key Takeaway

Crying can be contagious; the speaker wants to avoid harming a loved one.

Themes

emotional contagion self‑control protective behavior vulnerability interpersonal dynamics

Mood

anxious protective reflective

Type

personal confession narrative anecdote

When to use this quote

  • trying not to cry in front of a crush
  • protecting a friend from emotional distress
  • managing personal emotions in social settings

Key Concepts

empathy social influence personal insecurity

Practical Applications

  • writing a character study
  • advice on emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we sometimes suppress emotions for others?
  • How does perceived contagion affect our behavior?
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