Feel Quote by John Fowles
“You're not me. You can't feel like I feel." "I can feel." "No you can't. You just choose not to feel or something and everything's fine." "It's not fine. It's just not so bad.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The French Lieutenant's Woman, 1969
A dialogue reveals how people can deny or rationalize feelings, creating emotional distance.
In simple terms: People often avoid confronting true emotions.
Acknowledge and express feelings honestly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendships
- romantic relationships
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we choose not to feel?
- What are the costs of emotional denial?
May reflect a specific character’s perspective.