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Death Quote by John Donne

“Mark but this flea, and mark in this, How little that which thou deniest me is; Me it sucked first, and now sucks thee, And in this flea our two bloods mingled be; Thou know’st that this cannot be said A sin, or shame, or loss of maidenhead, Yet this enjoys before it woo, And pampered swells with…” quote by John Donne
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““Mark but this flea, and mark in this, How little that which thou deniest me is; Me it sucked first, and now sucks thee, And in this flea our two bloods mingled be; Thou know’st that this cannot be said A sin, or shame, or loss of maidenhead, Yet this enjoys before it woo, And pampered swells with one blood made of two, And this, alas, is more than we would do. Oh stay, three lives in one flea spare, Where we almost, nay more than married are. This flea is you and I, and this Our mariage bed and mariage temple is; Though parents grudge, and you, we are met, And cloisterd in these living walls of jet. Though use make you apt to kill me, Let not to that, self-murder added be, And sacrilege, three sins in killing three. Cruel and sudden, hast thou since Purpled thy nail in blood of innocence? Wherein could this flea guilty be, Except in that drop which it sucked from thee? Yet thou triumph’st, and say'st that thou Find’st not thy self, nor me the weaker now; ’Tis true; then learn how false, fears be: Just so much honor, when thou yield’st to me, Will waste, as this flea’s death took life from thee.””

John Donne

About This Quote

Source Poem: “The Flea” by John Donne, 1633

The speaker argues that a flea’s mingling of blood symbolizes intimacy, challenging social and moral constraints on physical union.

In simple terms: The flea shows how close we are, despite rules.

Key Takeaway

Recognize deeper connections beyond superficial boundaries.

Themes

intimacy social norms religion death union

Mood

reflective intimate

Type

poetic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • moral debate
  • personal relationships
  • religious critique

Key Concepts

metaphor symbolism courtly love

Questions to Reflect On

  • What hidden bonds do we ignore?
  • How do societal rules shape intimacy?
A Different Perspective

The argument may be seen as manipulative or overly erotic.

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