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Excitement Quote by John Ciardi

“Love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young, the habituation of the middle-aged, and the mutual dependence of the old.” quote by John Ciardi
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“Love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young, the habituation of the middle-aged, and the mutual dependence of the old.”

John Ciardi

About This Quote

Source Book: The Trouble with Love, John Ciardi, 1960

Love changes its meaning across life stages, reflecting youthful desire, middle‑age routine, and elder interdependence.

In simple terms: Love means different things at different ages.

Key Takeaway

Recognize love’s evolving nature.

Themes

relationships aging human nature

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

observational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • marriage
  • elder care
  • family discussions

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your experience of love shift with age?
  • What needs change as relationships mature?
A Different Perspective

Love can be idealized, overlooking practical challenges.

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