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Gloucester Quote by John Ciardi

“There was a young lady from Gloucester Who complained that her parents both bossed her, So she ran off to Maine. Did her parents complain? Not at all -- they were glad to have lost her.” quote by John Ciardi
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““There was a young lady from Gloucester Who complained that her parents both bossed her, So she ran off to Maine. Did her parents complain? Not at all -- they were glad to have lost her.””

John Ciardi

About This Quote

Source Poem: “The Gloucester Girl” by John Ciardi, 1955

A young woman escapes parental control, but her parents are relieved when she leaves, highlighting mismatched expectations.

In simple terms: Leaving can reveal hidden relief.

Key Takeaway

Respect boundaries and communicate expectations.

Themes

family independence expectations

Mood

reflective bittersweet

Type

poetic humorous

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • moving out
  • career changes
  • relationship decisions

Key Concepts

parental authority personal freedom

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you truly understand your own desires?
  • How might your family view your independence?
A Different Perspective

Parents may feel relief but also loss; not all escapes are positive.

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