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Argument Quote by Jo Coudert

“Rather, it is meant to say that expressed arguments are never won, that only the first several minutes of any discussion can be counted on to involve a calm elaboration of points of difference, while every further moment increases the danger of the argument degenerating into angry accusations and…” quote by Jo Coudert
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“Rather, it is meant to say that expressed arguments are never won, that only the first several minutes of any discussion can be counted on to involve a calm elaboration of points of difference, while every further moment increases the danger of the argument degenerating into angry accusations and hurt defense, and that, in all probability, you can count on the other fellow to see your point of view if you give him the silence in which to do it.”

Jo Coudert

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Source Speech: Unspecified discussion on argument dynamics, null

Arguments quickly devolve into hostility; silence lets the other person hear your view.

In simple terms: Calm early discussion, later anger; silence helps persuasion.

Key Takeaway

Use calm early minutes and give silence.

Themes

communication conflict persuasion

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • meetings
  • debates
  • negotiations
  • team discussions

Key Concepts

psychology dialogue dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you maintain calm early?
  • When is silence most effective?
A Different Perspective

Silence may not always change minds; power dynamics matter.

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