Done Quote by Jessamyn West
“I've done more harm by the falseness of trying to please than by the honesty of trying to hurt.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Friendly Persuasion, 1945
Trying to please can cause more harm than honest honesty, even if painful.
In simple terms: Pleasing can be harmful; honesty can be better.
Choose honest communication over false appeasement.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendships
- romantic relationships
- workplace feedback
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When is honesty more valuable than kindness?
- How do you balance truth and compassion?
Honesty may hurt feelings temporarily.