Looking Eyes Quote by Jennifer Ackerman
““In scoping out the party crowd, does one face catch your eye? The Tierra del Fuegans have an expression, mamihlapinatapei, which is listed in the Guinness Book of Records as the world's mist succinct word. It refers to the act of 'looking into each other's eyes, each hoping that the other will initiate what both want to do but neither chooses to commence.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Genius of Birds by Jennifer Ackerman, 2016
A brief word captures the shared, unspoken desire for mutual initiation that both parties hesitate to start.
In simple terms: A word for mutual hesitation to act.
Recognize and break the silent stalemate.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- team projects
- friendship negotiations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you wait for others to act first?
- What can you do to initiate?
It may overlook cultural differences in expressing desire.