Broken-families Quote by Jeff VanVonderen Download Open image ““Sign of an abusive system: getting angry at other's real needs.”” — Jeff VanVonderen ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ 3.8 out of 5 (5 ratings) Copy quoteShare Broken-families Depression Getting Angry Obstructionism Oppression Religious-abuse Stagnancy Teen-rebellion
“Resentful, angry, and abusive people drastically misinterpret the message of their own pain.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“HE ISN’T ABUSIVE BECAUSE HE IS ANGRY; HE’S ANGRY BECAUSE HE’S ABUSIVE.” — Lundy Bancroft Copy Share Image
“In fact, most anger and abuse rise out of deep wells of resentment.” — Steven Stosny Copy Share Image
“Abuse is not his goal, but control is, and he finds himself using abuse to gain the control he feels he has a right… — Lundy Bancroft Copy Share Image
“They also highlight the fact that a psychologically abusive person has no moral compass and is more than willing to use innocent people as… — Shannon Thomas Copy Share Image
“psychologically abusive people set out to take down the biggest challenge that presented itself at the time. The abuser sees it as a huge… — Shannon Thomas Copy Share Image
“Abuse changes who we are, it changes who we become, It changes how we move in the world – And so does kindness” — Nikki Rosen Copy Share Image
“You don't deserve the anger you're turning on yourself. Your abuser's the one who does.” — Cheryl Rainfield Copy Share Image
“The abuser sees it as a huge victory to turn an independent survivor into a needy, dependent person who can no longer make decisions… — Shannon Thomas Copy Share Image
“What angers us in another person is more often than not an unhealed aspect of ourselves. If we had already resolved that particular issue,we… — Simon Peter Fuller Copy Share Image
The truth is never the problem; The problem is always the problem. — Jeff VanVonderen Copy Share Image
When you get so tired that you realize you cannot generate righteousness, come on back and I'll tell you about a gift. — Jeff VanVonderen Copy Share Image
“Families are the flowers of a garden. Each family member comes in different colors and shapes but are have the same DNA.” — Margie Goldsmith Copy Share Image
“Family grudges are a complex web of emotions and history. Within the complex dynamics of such conflicts, they expect us to treat them with… — Carson Anekeya Copy Share Image
“Fear is simply an unpleasant fact, and should never be a barrier to success.” — Itayi Garande Copy Share Image
“The mind is rich with possibilities for fulfilment, but you decide to dwell on the limited horizons and paradigms that you are used to,… — Itayi Garande Copy Share Image
“What is it about me that gets them all crying? It’s not the end of the world.” — Diane Samuels Copy Share Image
“Living your dreams, changing your behaviours and overcoming negative habits is challenging. However, when you change the way you look at things, the things… — Itayi Garande Copy Share Image
“Christina died of a stroke in the fall of 1971, at the age of sixty-one. June watched the nurses take her mother's body away.… — Taylor Jenkins Reid Copy Share Image
“Adults who were hurt as children inevitably exhibit a peculiar strength, a profound inner wisdom, and a remarkable creativity and insight. Deep within them… — Wayne Muller Copy Share Image
“Oftentimes we try to change the world around us, our family members and our friends, while remaining the same. That is impossible. Sometimes we… — Itayi Garande Copy Share Image
“You are on earth to express greatness in your form, not anyone else’s. You are born for a reason. You have to find out… — Itayi Garande Copy Share Image
“A conscience that is forbidden to operate in the choice of goals for economic activity is not conscience in the sense in which any… — Lesslie Newbigin Copy Share Image
“Abandon the notion of entertaining toxic individuals, banking on the possibility that they might be your saviors in an unforeseeable future; under the pretense… — Carson Anekeya Copy Share Image
