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Depression Quote by Jean Hanff Korelitz

“All these years, her sole objective had been to keep still and hope no one would ever know. She had been a mistress of stillness. She had mastered the simulation of peace without a wisp of real peace, like a nun from a silent order who was screaming inside her head, or a yogi racked with pain. How…” quote by Jean Hanff Korelitz
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““All these years, her sole objective had been to keep still and hope no one would ever know. She had been a mistress of stillness. She had mastered the simulation of peace without a wisp of real peace, like a nun from a silent order who was screaming inside her head, or a yogi racked with pain. How she had managed to fool anyone, let alone everyone, mystified her (how obtuse people were!) and, oddly, made her extraordinarily bitter. Because the price of her gift for evasion was to have no one, not one person, who understood how horrible she felt. All the time. Absolutely all the time.””

Jean Hanff Korelitz

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Silent Patient, 2019

A woman hides her pain behind a façade of calm, leading to isolation and bitterness despite outward peace.

In simple terms: Hidden suffering creates loneliness.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge inner turmoil rather than masking it.

Themes

psychology emotions masking loneliness

Mood

melancholic introspective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • Therapy
  • personal relationships
  • self‑reflection
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

Self‑deception emotional suppression inner conflict

Questions to Reflect On

  • What masks are you using to hide pain?
  • How might authentic expression change your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Masking pain can damage relationships and self‑esteem.

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